Tuesday, May 10, 2011

The Gift

The main reason why Steven bought our house is because of our church, Open Table.  He always gives great advice to those who are house shopping- find a church that God has called you to, and then move accordingly.  It makes sense, right?  Steven felt like if we lived too far away from our church, we would struggle with loneliness and not feeling connected because of physical distance.  We desire to live life with others and its crazy how God worked it out- we can literally walk to our church in about 7 minutes.  We certainly don't have the whole church thing figured out and are still trying to achieve fellowship and community with others.

Last summer our good friends Ian and Ruthie North, who are missionaries and live in an apartment complex with immigrants, asked our church for volunteers.  Their goal was to have people pick up the kids who attend their after school program from their apartment and take them to church on Sundays.  This is when we met sisters Susan and Astry.  They have brought life and joy into our somewhat predictable lives.  They are bubbly and vivacious which is always a contrast to our introverted-ness.  They have introduced us to the tunes of Justin Bieber and I'm pretty sure Steven is not necessarily thankful for this.  Astry affectionately calls him "quiet dude", and I can't help but smile.  These girls have also opened up our eyes to their reality and it has forced us to wrestle with and confront our comfortable, middle-class white world.  As we have grown in our love and relationship with them, we have prayed that the Gospel would be revealed to their hearts and that they would truly "get it".  



While Steven and I were on vacation, we found out that Susan had become a Christian.  We were certainly excited, but we did not know what was coming next.  I got a text from Susan this past Sunday, saying that she had bad news as we were on our way to pick them up for church.  Astry was sick and stayed home, but Susan told us about how her family was unable to pay their rent, and that they were going to have to move out and leave Georgia this week.  We were heartbroken because we have loved them and anticipated witnessing what God would do in their lives as they grow up.  At the end of the service at church, we honored Susan by speaking words of encouragement over her and prayed for her.  It was a rich and sweet time, and I do not know if Susan has ever been honored in such a way. 

Later on that day, Steven and I unexpectedly received a financial gift, designated for the youth group.  It was a big chunk of change sitting in our hands.  It just so happened that it was the exact amount that Susan and Astry's family needed so they wouldn't get evicted the next day.  Another great aspect of this story is that when Steven went to make the money order for the family's rent, he did not realize that this requires a fee.  The business only takes cash and he didn't have any extra.  The lady who was making the transaction briefly talked to her fellow employee, and then told him that they would do so with no charge.  The Lord beautifully orchestrated all the little details because He loves those girls so much. 

We are amazed at how God sees the needs of mankind, and can swiftly make provision for those who see no way out.  Steven tried to explain to Susan and Astry's mother through Susan translating that this truly is a gift with no need to repay, because the money we were given was never ours.  The girls can now finish out the school year without being abruptly pulled from their class and can leave with closure.  Even though they are planning to move away as soon as school is out, we are praying that God would use this to draw their entire family to Jesus.  We are deeply saddened that they are leaving, but embrace the gift that Susan and Astry have been to all of us at Open Table.






Thursday, March 31, 2011

List of Nevers

Do you ever wonder how on earth you've gotten to where you are today?   There is a well known quote that I love, that says "If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans."  Well, He has definitely laughed, with yours truly supplying at least some sort of mild entertainment.
I had a running list of things that I would never do, and it is quite ironic that I have done just about all of them.  I vowed never to live in Atlanta after college and working at the Wesley Foundation.  I wanted to get away from this big city and its sprawling suburbs, desiring to live in a smaller town.  Current zipcode where Steven bought our house: yup, definitely Atlanta.  Did I resent this at first? (well, maybe...but I love it here now!)

I would never go back to school again.  I enjoy learning, but I was certain that this part of my life was over.  The thought of having APA as my best friend again or doing any sort of graduate work was nauseating.  Today, my current occupation is student.  One year to go, woo-hoo!

I swore up and down that I would have nothing to do with teenagers, with all their puzzling behavior and endless drama.  I love college-aged kids, with their zeal for life and semi-awkward confidence in knowing what they want, but still being open to change.  But high schoolers, absolutely not!  I can remember telling other people emphatically "I simply don't do that age.  Its not my thing".  Well, God is having a good ole time up there, because recently, Steven and I have felt led by the Lord to invest into the youth in our church, along with others who simultaneously had this desire.  It's an adventure for all of us, as we dive into a not so typical, "ain't your mama's" youth group, with the majority of the kids being immigrants.  Quite the contrast from your typical, all-white, middle class youth group.

I think I'm relearning this lesson here as I type.  Basically, making a list of "nevers" is something that you can adamantly articulate and express to the Lord, but if you want to live a life for Him that is full of awe and wonder, He will almost always make you eat your words.  (Well, at least in my experience.) 

To close, I will leave you with one of my favorite verses, that touches on the ever-present suspense and joy that we can anticipate with knowing our God.  It's awesome, and I pray that it would give you some comfort if you're experiencing the turbulence of a "never" right now.. 

II Corinthians 2:9 
"Things which eye has not seen and ear has not heard, and which have not entered the heart of man, all that God has prepared for those who love Him."

PS: I left off 1 more never: promising myself that I would never go on Eharmony...well, I have to say its the best 60 bucks I have ever spent in my life, and I thank God for it which gave me the gift of Steven!

Hands-down, best indirect result of one of my nevers coming true: